Subject: Seeking Advice on Getting a Cat in a Flat
Hi everyone,
I’m reaching out because I live in a top-floor flat in London and I’ve always dreamed of having a cat, specifically a Ragdoll, as an indoor companion. We moved into this flat in 2023 and have been responsible tenants—keeping the place tidy, paying rent on time, and being cooperative.
My landlord, who is wonderful and a big animal enthusiast, has a no-pets policy in the tenancy agreement. However, she has previously expressed her willingness to consider allowing us to have a cat. Unfortunately, since she only owns this flat, she needed to get approval from the neighbors. While everyone else was on board, our downstairs neighbor, who is afraid of animals, was worried about the cat potentially getting into her flat (though I’m not sure how that would happen). At that time, I decided to hold off since we couldn’t come to an understanding.
Now, the downstairs neighbor has been away since January 2024, presumably back home. I’m left wondering what to do next. It feels unfair that her absence is preventing me from having a cat when she isn’t even around. Would it be too risky to adopt a cat now? If she returns, is it likely she would find out? I’ve heard rumors about potential changes to pet laws—does anyone have information on that?
I would appreciate any advice or insights you might have! Thank you!
Hi there!
It sounds like you’re in a tough situation, especially since your landlord is supportive and the other neighbors are on board. While it might seem tempting to get a cat now that your downstairs neighbor is away, it’s important to consider the potential consequences.
Communication with the Landlord: Since your landlord is an animal lover, it might be worth discussing the situation with her again. Explain that the downstairs neighbor is currently away and express your desire to have a cat. Your landlord might feel more comfortable giving you permission in her absence.
Temporary Solutions: If the landlord gives you a green light but is concerned about the downstairs neighbor, you could propose some solutions. For example, ensuring that the cat is kept indoors at all times or offering to keep the cat in a specific room would show your commitment to being a responsible pet owner.
Wait for the Neighbor’s Return: If there’s a possibility that the downstairs neighbor might return soon, it might be worth waiting and trying to communicate with her when she’s back. Sometimes, a face-to-face conversation can help ease fears.
Legal Changes: The law surrounding pet ownership in rental properties has been changing. You might want to research the specific changes in your area and see if that could impact your situation.
Consider a Different Pet: If waiting isn’t an option, think about other pets that might be more acceptable or easier to manage in a flat setting—like fish or small rodents.
Ultimately, it’s about finding a balance between your desire for a pet and respecting the shared space with your neighbors. Good luck, and I hope you can find a solution that works for you!